I Almost Relapsed on the 4th of July

“I Will Not Use, No Matter What!” I wrote that phrase in my lecture notebook during my stay at Rob’s Ranch, and I still remember the exact moment I wrote it. A feeling of strength came over me as I made a personal mandate that I was done with my old way of living....

The Answer To All Your Problems

You may have heard thousands of times that admitting you have a problem is the first step. Well I couldn’t disagree more. Admitting the problem is nothing. You can admit to anything, especially when being pressured or confronted with the dreaded “choice” question. I...

3 Signs You’re About To Relapse

Recently I’ve had the distinct pleasure of working with several men early in sobriety. I’m talking really early, like 2 days, 5 days, 2 weeks early. It’s been really invigorating for me because it’s somewhat of a departure from the men I’m typically working with who...

I Believe In You!

As you walk down the road to recovery, you must walk with your eyes wide open and your head held high, always focused on what lies ahead, not what you’ve left behind. Keeping hope alive in your life will take work. It’s not always an easy road and it’s certainly the...

You’re Worth It

  As you walk down the road to recovery, you must walk with your eyes wide open and your head held high, always focused on what lies ahead, not what you’ve left behind. Keeping hope alive in your life will take work. It’s not always an easy road and it’s...

Wake up and smell the Routine!

In chapter 4 of my book I talk about the importance of a good routine. At the time I wrote the book it was really easy to write that chapter because my routine was ticking like a perfectly wound watch. But since that time, my life has gotten a smidge busier and for a...